There comes a moment, sometimes soft, sometimes seismic, when the stories you’ve carried about your sexuality begin to feel too restrictive, too small, too scripted, too rooted in someone else’s fears or beliefs.
The Call of the Body
You feel it in the quiet ache in your chest when you hold back your truth. In the clench in your belly when you suppress your desires. In the tender longing to be touched, seen, and worshipped for who you really are…beneath the conditioning.
This is your body speaking. This is your erotic truth whispering: It’s time ✨
The Wounds of Sisterhood
I’ve held sacred space for so many women who carry the sting of being judged or shamed…not by men, but by other women. It’s not always loud or obvious. Often, it slips in through the micro-shames: the subtle digs, the side-eyes, the passive-aggressive comments, the internalized patriarchy passed down from woman to woman, family, friends and the like.
Whether it’s unconscious or intentional, it always leaves a mark.
My Personal Reckoning
I’ll never forget the time a close family friend criticized my work, the sacred message I share to help women reclaim their sensuality and stand fully in their erotic truth. She told me it should be “kept quiet,” “behind closed doors.” Even worse, she tried to imply my work was to blame for the issues in my marriage…a marriage that was collapsing from the weight of my husband’s addiction and unhealed trauma.
I knew it was absurd but her words cut like a knife and silenced me for nearly a year. I questioned my worth and my purpose. I felt deflated. That’s the only word that truly captured it.
The Sacred Shame & the Script
Shame has a way of slipping under the skin, of making us question the very parts of ourselves that are most sacred, most alive, most true.
For far too long, we’ve been told what our sexuality should look like. We’ve been taught to be desirable, but not too much. Open, but not too wild. Sexy, but still “safe.” And in this performance, we’ve learned to disconnect from the deep intelligence of our bodies.
We’ve become masters at armoring our hearts, tensing in the moments we most want to surrender, and apologizing for desiring more.
But, the truth is…your sexuality is sacred. Not something to be managed or judged. It’s a sacred force, a living, breathing pulse meant to be fully embodied and fully expressed.
Your Erotic Truth is Your Power
Your sensuality is divine. Your turn-on is a compass. Your desire a pathway. It’s time to shed the outdated narratives, to burn the good-girl script and to stop silencing the wild, untamed Vixen within!
Right now, the energy is ripe for reclamation as the old stories are crumbling. This is your invitation to step deeper into the fire🔥 of your erotic essence…not just for better sex or connection with others, but for more intimacy with your own soul.
✨ To reclaim your body as your temple.
✨ To let your pleasure lead.
✨ To live turned on, not just in the bedroom, but in your entire life.
Because when you reclaim your sensual truth, everything shifts:
- You stop apologizing for your needs.
- You stop settling for half-hearted love.
- You magnetize deeper connection and true intimacy.
This is a Holy Homecoming 💎
This is more than healing, this is a holy homecoming. Are you ready to strip back the layers and remember who you are?
The feminine is rising. The story is changing. And your body is the oracle.
She already knows the way.
A Pleasure Ritual: “The Reclamation”
This practice is for the woman who is done dimming her light. For the woman who is ready to return to her body as her altar.
What you’ll need:
- A mirror
- A journal
- Oil or body butter
- Soft lighting or candles
- A playlist that makes you feel sensual and alive
Step 1: Set the Space
Light a candle. Put on those songs that seduce and activate your sensual self. Let the room feel like a temple, because it is. You are the altar 🙏🏽
Step 2: Mirror Gaze
Sit or stand in front of the mirror. Look into your own eyes. Say aloud:
“I am sacred. I am sensual. I am free.”
Repeat this slowly as many times as you need to let it land.
Step 3: Touch with Intention
Use the oil or body butter to slowly, lovingly and intentionally massage your body. Speak words of reverence to each part:
- “My belly is soft and powerful.”
- “My breasts hold love and wisdom.”
- “My thighs carry me with strength.”
- “My yoni is my sacred portal.”
Step 4: Journal Prompt
After your ritual, take time to write about what came up for you. Here are a few prompts to help:
- What parts of my sensuality have I been hiding?
- Who shamed me and what part of myself did I silence because of it?
- What is the truth I’m ready to reclaim?
Step 5: Anchor It In
End with your hands over your womb and heart. Breathe. Whisper:
“I reclaim my sensual truth. I release what was never mine to carry.”
💫The Truth is…
You don’t need to hide. You don’t need to explain. You just need to come home to your truth, to your body, to your wild, untamed feminine self.
I see you. I’ve been there. And I walk beside you.
Let this be your permission slip to release what was never yours. To unhook from the voices that tried to make you doubt your power. To remember that your body is sacred. Your desires are valid. And your expression is holy.
If this resonates, I invite you to step into the Temple of Sensual Alchemy 🐍 to learn more. This is your space to be witnessed, celebrated, and held as you rise. Your radiance is welcome here.
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With love, power & pleasure,


